When you’re making a ministry decision that’s beyond your level of capability and experience, it’s a natural tendency to start by asking:
What would (insert name of more successful/influential person) do?
When we have a person or church that we really look up to, either up-close or from a distance, we often attempt to make our own decisions by emulating their processes.
This is somewhat helpful, but equally limiting.
Let me suggest an alternate, enhanced version of this exercise.
Play the scenario out with several different people/ministries/businesses that you respect. This will ensure that you get the benefit of various perspectives.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve played this imaginary game in my mind when facing a tough call. I’ll try to imagine the response of several of my friends and mentors that I respect. (Sometimes I even make my wife or staff play along. It’s fun for the whole family!)
Of course, ultimately, my circumstances and calling are unique, and I must make my decisions based on God’s Word and the promptings of the Holy Spirit.
But imitating the faith of others (plural) can help spark that process.
One more disclaimer: If you don’t know someone personally, be extra careful about basing your decision making on what they would do.
You don’t really know what they would do just because you listen to their podcast, follow their blog and own their books. And I’m telling you man, there’s always more to the story.
Inspiration initiates life. Imitation breeds frustration.
Wise decision makers work hard to stay on the right side of the line.